No relationship is perfect but there are some things to keep an eye out for when starting or thinking about a current relationship you are in this could be with an intimate partner, family member, friend, or co-worker.
This person takes responsibility for their own actions.
Support things you want to do or pursue.
Practice self-care.
Are reflective on their life or situations.
They have long-standing healthy friendships.
Empathy towards others.
You can be vulnerable around this person or they are vulnerable.
They are spiritual and don't mock your spirituality.
Self-sufficient- They can take care of themselves, appointments, and needs.
Communicate openly with no judgment.
Has hobbies and is encouraging for you to pursue your own or to join in with their interests.
Respects and honors your boundaries.
Are affectionate with you.
Takes interests in the thing you like to do.
Supportive and positive about you even when you aren't feeling that way.
Has a great sense of humor and can laugh at themselves. They don't put you down.
Can help out financially if they need to with no strings or without being asked.
A good listener and communicator.
Has fun!
Accepts your past without being critical.
Doesn't compare you to others.
Respects your need for alone time.
Allows and encourages you to have a career.
Respects your children.
Knows they aren't the center of the universe.
They are mature.
They have confidence in themselves without being cocky.
Fits in no matter what the situation or environment they are in.
Admit when they make mistakes.
Shares in chores or tasks around the house.
Enjoys quiet time and encourages you to do the same.
Willing to deal with the ups and downs in a relationship.
