Saturday, October 30, 2021

Why Does She Stay?!


One comment I see and hear often is, "Why Does She Stay?!" or "I would have left after the first punch!"

There are very private reasons a victim stays in an abusive relationship. It could be as simple as not being able to be free because the abuse is happening to you as a child under 18. But, nothing about abuse can be viewed as simple. Abuse is evil, has devastating long-lasting effects, and can repeat in future relationships. 

Now I say, "She" in this video below but abuse can happen to anyone. It doesn't discriminate! No matter your age, sex, religious background, socio-economic make-up abuse can be found throughout our planet. 

There are many personal reasons a victim stays and these include in random order:
1) Fear- Of change or fear of the abuser
2) Guilty- Maybe she didn't try hard enough to work on the relationship
3) Lack of resources- No job, car, money, or even a lack of support

Find out more here-




Someone out there needs to know they are not alone and that they can survive. Perhaps you are a parent or friend of someone trapped in an abusive relationship and need to know how to help. My goal is to share awareness, offer empowerment, and educate others about emotional traumas and domestic abuse. Here I will share my story and also stories of courage and healing from Survivors, Coaches, to Therapists/Counselors.
Find help and info here-
National Domestic Violence Hotline- https://www.thehotline.org/
Sexual Assault Hotline- https://www.rainn.org/

What Is Abuse And What Does It Look Like?

 

Abuse is more than physical...

It's more than just physical! Know you are not alone and if you need to find resources or help message me privately. I've been there and know how difficult it is to leave and to stay gone. I neglected to share that there is also Immigration abuse.

Abuse can be all about an abuse of power
Substance abuse
Cyber abuse
Elder abuse
Emotional abuse
Mental abuse
Sexual abuse
Teen dating violence
Financial abuse
Verbal abuse
Physical abuse
Immigration abuse

Find the link to this video here-What does abuse look like?


Someone out there needs to know they are not alone and that they can survive. Perhaps you are a parent or friend of someone trapped in an abusive relationship and need to
know how to help. My goal is to share awareness, offer empowerment, and educate others about emotional traumas and domestic abuse. Here I will share my story and also stories of courage and healing from Survivors, Coaches, to Therapists/Counselors.
Find help and info here-
National Domestic Violence Hotline- https://www.thehotline.org/
Sexual Assault Hotline- https://www.rainn.org/

Stay Safe!
Mel